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1. HE IS SEXUAL TOWARDS YOU: When you are out on a date, be wary of guy who turns the conversation down the sexual route too quickly. This is over familiarity yet this often gets ignored and mistaken for a strong attraction and connection. If he is making a lot of sexual talk, steering the conversation onto sex, staring meaningfully at your breasts and crotch, it is likely that he has got one thing on his mind and it is not getting to know you, it is getting into your panties.

2. TRIES TO DO MORE THAN KISS: He tries to do more than a kiss on the first date. No matter how great the sparks are between you both, generally speaking, guys that really do like you can keep their penis in their pants and their hands above board for at least one evening.

3. SUGGESTS THAT YOU BECOME SEX BUDDIES: He suggests that you become f*ck buddies or Friends with Benefits. It is not because he is not ready for a relationship yet. It is because he just wants to have sex and is likely to be emotionally unavailable too.

4. EXPECTS SOMETHING IN RETURN: He expects something in return for taking you out to dinner and paying for the meal. There are guys that think. I paid for dinner, getting laid that night. This is not much better than treating someone like a prostitute and certainly is not an indicator of a man that wants to forge a relationship with you.

5. DOES NOT WANT TO KNOW YOUR PERSONALITY: He does not want to try to get to know your personality. A guy does not need to know what colour of Panties you are wearing in order to get to know you. You will also find that a lot of the conversation is surface and that it tends to serve the greater purpose of making you feel comfortable enough to have sex.

6. CALLS YOU WHEN ITS DARK: He seems to call only when it is dark or late to arrange when to have sex. It is amazing how this can creep up on you and it is only when you step back and think about when they are calling and how much the relationship has progressed that you realize that you are being used for sex.

7. RELATIONSHIP HAS NOT GONE ANYWHERE: Your relationship has not progressed past him buying you drinks and dinner and ending up in bed. This is like being on a permanent date. No matter what promise you thought this relationship had, it has faltered or come to a halt because the focal point is the sex. He is not interested in building on anything other than his hard on. If you try to meet other couples, he is likely to be very uncomfortable or will go along with things but create conflict so effectively sabotaging any chance of progress. Remember that with this type of guy, every time that think you may want, need, or expect too much, they will do something stupid.

8. DOES NOT WANT PROPER CONVERSATION; He does not want to do anything that involves talking to each other properly unless it leads to sex. Try having a conversation with him that does not involve sex and note the way he becomes uncomfortable.

9. AFTER SEX, HE RUNS AWAY: Once the sex is over, he makes a hasty exit. Whilst some will stick around and dignify you with a cuddle, many do not like to stay the night in case you think things are getting serious. The ones that do stay over and hang around, are clever enough to play the game to avoid creating conflict, but that does not change the fact that they just want sex.

Ladies, if you find yourself being used for sex, an ego stroke, or a shoulder to lean on , its time to evaluate the relationship.
SOURCE: jksoulmate

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